To start, you have gorgeous hair. If you’re looking to kind of tame it, pixies and short hair are really popular, and you look like you have the right build and face shape for short hair.
With the texture of your hair I imagine it would look like this and that would be adorable!I would do it in steps though and cut it off a little at a time so the change doesn’t seem so drastic :)
As far as the haircut goes this girl has a gorgeous style! A lot of layers through the bangs always look good!
And with the color, I got blonde just through the front and underside of my hair and I love it! It lets me keep my dark hair but also have a lot of blonde in it! :)